Actually, I wish that I had come up with this concept, but since I'm not a follower, and not a lead who follows, that would be hard to do.
Irene over at
Irene and Man Yung's Tango Blog came up with the concept of a lead that is full of holes - bottomless ones. Notice I didn't say "a lead who". Let's not make this personal. As a leader, I think I can say we have all been there - where the bottom drops out of our lead. A black hole of tango. Tango Not. A tango-naut thirty thousand feet deep in the blackness of the
Mariana Trench. A tango knot, infinitely twisting in on itself, never to be untied.
I think what Irene and Man Yung are trying to say is that there is a difference between dancers who think they are "skilled", or worse "
know" they are skilled (when they actually aren't) and those who are on the path of eternal improvement in their tango.
The ones who "think/know" they are skilled are the "Tango Dancers of High Repute" that Irene refers to. I would edit that to be "Tango Dancers of High Self-Repute".
Those on the EI2T2 Path (Eternal Improvement In Their Tango) (grin), recognize that sometimes their lead sucks - "a great big sucking noise" in the words of the infamous
Ross Perot. Makes me wonder if Mr. Perot has, or will ever dance tango...? What a visual! But I digress.
Those on the path recognize the voids, the holes, the nothingness in their lead. They are painfully aware of those moments - generally few, but profoundly deafening and reverberating in the mind of said leader. Those on the path seek to fill those holes, and fill the deafening void with something. "Something". Perhaps even silence.
Fill a void with silence!? Wow. Now there's a concept. Filling the void of a lead with silence.
Dancing the silence as el maestro Gavito said. I think that was him. I love it when a blog comes together.
Dance the silence. Master the nothingness in your lead. It's called "The Pause".
That's my two cents. Even if those two cents are down over there at the end of this other path of digression.
And dont' forget to check out Irene & Man Yung's post on "
SKILL".
Thanks to
Elizabeth and
Mari both for saying something about this Irene and Man Yung post in their own blogs. It's funny and pertinent and poignant enough to spread the word and spread the post.
Skill and nothingness. Skill v. nothingness? Hmm. I love it when my brain ponders. When it comes to "skill", personally, I think I'd rather master the nothingness in my lead. With a five gallon bucket full of silence. The "less is more" minimalist approach.